We have been so overwhelmed by the outpouring of love that we have received in the past few weeks.  The blog comments, emails, cards, flowers, meals, thoughts, and prayers sent our way have meant more than anyone can possibly know.  We cannot thank you enough.  We are completely heartbroken over the loss of our son and only time will make us whole again but your support and love have helped to lessen our pain in this difficult time.  You are incredible people.  From the bottom of our hearts we thank you – really and truly, thank you so much. 

It is our Christmas wish that each of you will look with fresh eyes on the treasure you have in your loved ones and take the time to show them how much they mean to you this season.  If you have children, look into their eyes and remember what an incredible gift it is to be able to do even just that.  When we look at all of the simple things we take for granted every day, it becomes so obvious how rich our lives really are and that every Christmas season is a wonderful one, no matter what.  May you all have a beautiful and blessed Christmas.

Much love,

Mel and Sean

27 Comments

  1. sara whitver on December 23, 2008 at 9:52 am

    sean and mel- i have been praying for you daily and keeping up with you via Rachel. I’ve also kept up with your blog (which is awesome, by the way!) for a quite some time.

    i thank God for the grace that he must be giving you to make it through this time. Merry Christmas, and know that there are people that are way off of your radar that keep you in mind and prayer.

  2. opal jones on December 23, 2008 at 10:16 am

    ahh…i hope ya’ll have a very merry christmas too…i am sorry i missed you this weekend while i was in town…it just got really crazy real fast…you know how that shooting wedding stuff goes…just know that you are loved always and that if you need anything i am always here…love you both!!!

  3. Bradford on December 23, 2008 at 11:54 am

    You guys are the best!!

  4. Chung Nguyen on December 23, 2008 at 12:56 pm

    Merry Christmas.

  5. Angie and Noah on December 23, 2008 at 1:58 pm

    We love you guys! We hope you have a blessed Christmas and that God continues to our out His grace, love, and healing on both of you!
    Merry Chirstmas!

  6. Angie and Noah on December 23, 2008 at 1:59 pm

    We love you guys! We pray that you have a blessed Chrsitmas and that God continues to pour out His grace and healing on both of you. Merry Christmas!

  7. esm on December 23, 2008 at 2:54 pm

    My Dear Ones, What an awesome and courageous post. You never cease to amaze me with the class, wisdom, courage and love that you exhibit on a daily basis. You are truly my heroes and I love you with all my heart. . . . and special thanks to the wonderful people who have poured their love upon you, they have helped us as well. God bless us all. The Mema.

  8. Carole White on December 23, 2008 at 4:20 pm

    I have been thinking of you daily, but there are no words to express what I am feeling for you both. Just know that you are loved. I hope you have a special Christmas filled with love and that the new year comes with peace!

  9. Cathy Crawley on December 24, 2008 at 2:15 am

    What a beautifully giving message, how you find the strength I will never know. I have thought of you often in these last few weeks and can not imagine the grief you must feel, but know that there are strangers out there who carry you in their hearts :) Have a Merry Christmas xxx

  10. Melanie on December 24, 2008 at 10:49 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this Christmas season and I wish you continued love, strength and courage during this difficult time. Hold fast to one another and never let go. Much love!

  11. mary crow on December 24, 2008 at 12:25 pm

    Happy Wednesday!

  12. jane cato photography on December 24, 2008 at 12:36 pm

    It is sooooo nice to hear your voice (even if it’s just on the blog!) Thinking of you. Merry Christmas.

  13. aunt carol on December 24, 2008 at 2:11 pm

    Sean and Melanie….that is a beautiful Christmas message. You are both remarkable people. May the Christ Child touch your hearts and bring a moment of joy this Christmas. Love to you both. God Bless.

  14. adi and cat on December 24, 2008 at 5:45 pm

    bless you two.

    i hope the coming year brings you peace.

  15. Liz on December 24, 2008 at 11:31 pm

    you guys are amazing – such an inspiration. i’m so glad Mark and I have gotten the chance to know you and I cannot wait until May…for multiple reasons! :) Merry Christmas you guys!!

  16. Adele and Sean Reding on December 25, 2008 at 11:34 pm

    We just wanted to let you know that we have been thinking about you both and pray that God continues to speak peace and comfort into your hearts each day. Blessings, hope and His love to you both~

  17. Steve Gerrard on December 26, 2008 at 3:46 am

    Merry Christmas from the UK guys and thanks for the inspiration in 2008.

    Here’s to a spectacular 09. Al the best to you and the family.

    Cheers
    Steve
    x

  18. Lisa Thomas on December 26, 2008 at 6:44 pm

    Rob & I have thought of you often. We’ve been praying for you and even Olivia has been praying for you at night. She asked me the other day how I thought you were doing. I will share with her your blog post and then give her a big hug. We’ll continue to pray for you!

  19. Torrie on December 28, 2008 at 5:35 pm

    Sean and Mel,
    You guys and Elaine have in our thoughts as well, and everyone in our family. I can’t imagine what you are going through and we appreciate you taking the time to post on the blog to let us know how you are doing. Much love and hugs.

  20. david & kimi b ~ ohana photographers on January 1, 2009 at 1:21 pm

    we wish you both many blessings for 2009. we hope this will be a better year for all of us. xo

  21. Will and Sarah Costello on January 1, 2009 at 11:14 pm

    Just want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything we are right around the corner. Love you.

  22. Will and Sarah Costello on January 1, 2009 at 11:15 pm

    Thinking and praying for you guys. Call us if you need anything, we are just around the corner.
    Love you.

  23. CEDARWOOD on January 3, 2009 at 11:23 am

    Melanie and Sean, All of us at Cedarwood want to send you our condolences and best wishes for a fresh new year. You are a beautiful and talented couple and we are huge fans of your work! We hope you will be back at Cedarwood in 2009. Your photos are still some of the first we show prospective brides because they showcase the property so beautifully. Come visit and see the many changes and upgrades…and if you ever need a site to shoot, you are welcome here any time. All the best,
    Linda and the crew at Cedarwood

  24. CEDARWOOD on January 3, 2009 at 11:27 am

    Melanie and Sean,
    We wanted to send our condolences and best wishes for a fresh new year. You are a lovely and talented couple, and we are big fans of your work. Your photos are still some of the first we pull to show prospective brides because they so beautifully capture our property. Come visit and see all the changes and upgrades at Cedarwood – and if you ever need a spot to shoot, you’re always welcome here.
    All the best,
    Linda and the Cedarwood crew

  25. Molly Michel on January 3, 2009 at 4:24 pm

    I haven’t checked your blog in months (silly me), and am so sad to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences as you continue to work thru it. Hope your holidays held joy and comfort.

  26. Ed Stone on January 4, 2009 at 10:26 am

    Your in my thoughts.

    http://www.edstonephotography.com

  27. Mel McLellan on January 14, 2009 at 2:11 am

    You all are so incredible. Thank you again, so much, for all of your kind words, thoughts, and prayers.

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